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Relationships
Every relationship has three parts: my relationship with myself, who the other person is, and the relationship we create together. The hug analogy shows how they fit.
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Connection without losing yourself.
Relationships
We like to think we see people clearly. But more often than we realize, we see people through a lens that was handed to us, and then we treat them accordingly. Over time, they often become…
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Capacity, not constant calm.
Emotions
Emotional regulation doesn’t mean always feeling calm. It means building the capacity to feel what you feel and still show up for what matters.
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Emotions
Every self-growth journey feels like standing at the bottom of a valley surrounded by steep mountains. No matter which way you turn, the path ahead is uphill. Many people start climbing one…
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Seeing clearly and owning what is yours.
Self-Trust
Caring deeply can quietly turn into carrying everything. Ownership is learning what belongs to you, what doesn’t, and what you can set down.
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Self-Trust
I got a missionary email from one of my son’s friends the other day. And as I read it, my heart broke a little. He was explaining how he’s learning and growing. How he can see now that who…
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Self-Trust
I started reading Dopamine Nation recently, and one idea immediately stuck with me. Pain and pleasure are processed in the same part of the brain. Not just related.
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Self-Trust
There’s a version of life we all wish we had. The one where everything is clear. Where we can see the path ahead. Where we know how it’s going to turn out. But that’s not usually how it works.
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